Phil Pearl: Mental Toughness. Tel: 020 7467 8548. Email: phil@mental-toughness.co.uk
Having belief in your abilities to achieve and succeed.
Success is often due to our beliefs in our capabilities. We may have all the skills needed but if we don’t think that we can do it, then of course we won’t. We are more likely to achieve what we want, when we have Mental Toughness and believe in our ability to succeed.
If we have strong self-efficacy then we are more likely to see problems, changes and difficult tasks as challenges and therefore will engage with them and persevere, rather than feel threatened and avoid them. We will set ourselves demanding goals and have a strong sense of commitment to them. We see any failures and setbacks as a need to increase our efforts or to acquire new skills and resources so that we can try again. Our outlook will be more optimistic and we will have greater self-assurance. Strong self-efficacy means that we will feel more in control and are less likely to feel stressed or become depressed.
Low self-efficacy means that we will doubt our capabilities. This self-doubt will cause us to avoid moving out of our comfort zones. Our aspirations will be lower and we will set ourselves smaller goals and be less motivated to achieve them. Set backs or failures will be attributed to our perceived lack of ability and we will not increase our efforts to succeed. We are more likely to be less resilient, give up and focus on our faults. Our general outlook will be more negative and our view of the future pessimistic. Our lack of faith in ourselves will mean that we feel less in control and are more likely to feel stressed, helpless and hopeless; we are more likely to become depressed.
What influences our self-efficacy?
Self-efficacy can be developed by our experiences. Previous successes at tasks will increase our self-efficacy for a particular subject or area. Failures may decrease our self-efficacy, especially if we have no previous successes to build on. If we only experience easy successes and quick results, then failures may cause us to be easily discouraged and give up. If we have persevered in the face of difficulties then our self-efficacy will be more resilient and we will recover easier from setbacks.
Our observations of other people will influence our self-efficacy. If we see others succeed whom we regard as similar to ourselves then we are more likely to believe that we are also capable of success. Of course, if we see similar people fail despite their best efforts, we may be less likely to believe in ourselves. We may also increase our self-efficacy by learning from or modelling someone with the skills, qualities and capabilities we desire.
Our self-efficacy will be affected by the encouragement that we receive from others. If we are persuaded, against our own self-doubt that we have the necessary qualities and capabilities to succeed, then we may increase our efforts and try harder. If the encouragement was misjudged then we learn from poor results. A lack of encouragement or negative persuasion may quickly undermine our self-efficacy and increase our self-doubt. Therefore, we may limit our activities and be far less motivated, leading to further disbelief in our capabilities.
The way in which we react to physical and emotional stress also plays a part in our levels of self-efficacy. If we perceive that our bodily fatigue, aches or tension are signs of physical inadequacy then our belief in our capabilities will be reduced. Alternatively we may view our reactions to stress as an energizing and motivating factor. Our emotions and moods will also affect our self-efficacy; a positive mood will increase our self-efficacy, whilst a negative or pessimistic mood will reduce it.
Self-efficacy not only applies to individuals but also groups and organisations. A team or company that has high beliefs in their collective efficacy will overcome challenges and be more likely to persist and succeed in a competitive business environment.
How can Hypnotherapy help?
If we are imagining failure and focusing on things going wrong, then there is a very strong chance that what we fear will in fact become a reality; a self-fulfilling prophesy. If we imagine that something is too difficult and beyond our abilities, then we are less likely to attempt anything new, such as apply for a promotion, which may stretch our perceived capabilities. It may be that we are imagining past failures and previous events and how awful we felt at the time. Those times when we were ridiculed or humiliated may have left their mark on our unconscious minds and we will consciously or unconsciously avoid situations where they could happen again.
Our self-efficacy is a perception that we can modify and update. Hypnotherapy makes the best use of our creative unconscious so that we can mentally rehearse successful outcomes rather than imagine failure and catastrophes. This mental rehearsal of success greatly increases our self-belief and self-efficacy, as the clearer we can imagine our goal, the more likely we are to succeed. Hypnotherapy is effective at removing the negative emotional charge caused by past failures so that they no longer affect us in the present and the past loses its influence over our future.
Together with hypnotherapy, you can learn instant relaxation techniques so that you have control over your mind and body; these techniques reduce anxiety and nervous tension enabling you to concentrate on your performance without unwanted physical sensations, such as sweating, stomach cramps, nausea and headaches. You can focus your mind and body and realise your true potential. You can make the best use of your capabilities and increase your belief in acquiring more.
How can Rational Thinking help?
There can be no doubt that our thoughts are essential in determining how confident we are and therefore an essential part of our self-beliefs of efficacy. Rational thinking helps us to acknowledge our skills, past achievements and previous successes also to view any past failures as learning experiences. We can further dispute any irrational thoughts and negative thinking regarding our capabilities, which are holding us back and be far less critical of ourselves.
You can use rational thinking to help you persist in reaching your goals, overcome setbacks and stay focused. Your thinking will be realistic without being disturbed by perfectionist traits or frustration. Keeping your thinking rational means that you are less likely to procrastinate and more likely to persevere and succeed as you increase your Mental Toughness and resilience to setbacks.
It’s our beliefs of self-efficacy that determine whether we are losers or winners.